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As much as we grumble about it, work forms a big part of our identity. When new acquaintances ask us to tell them about ourselves we usually start out by describing what we do for a living. Work gives our lives structure and meaning. We don’t like Mondays and we do thank God it’s Friday – and ordering our week that way, with five days on and two days off, gives us a comfortable, predictable routine. Much of our sense of accomplishment comes from the things we do at work – the satisfaction of a job well done, and the bonuses and promotions that sometimes go with it. As long as we’re getting our work done, we know we’re useful members of society. We usually make a lot of our friends at work, and having lunch or drinks after work with them can be one of the highlights of our day. You did all that income planning during your working life in order to have the freedom to do what you want during your retirement, but retiring also takes all those things you’ve been depending on away. If you’re not prepared for the change, that can make you miserable.
But don’t despair: life after work doesn’t have to be boring. Nobody’s forcing you to wear pyjamas and watch daytime television. It’s just that nobody will force you to stop doing it, either. You’ve got to do that for yourself. Like most things in life, making your retirement a success requires a plan. To start with, the first thing you have to do when you’re getting ready to retire is sit yourself down and make a list of all the things that make you, you. Cross off anything that has to do with work, and what you’ve got left are the materials out of which you’re going to build your new life. Make a new routine out of all the things you love to do and note down all the hobbies and activities you’re going to be involved in; www.seniors.gov.au offers a range of retirement information that can help you find things that interest you. Try to get out of the house every day, and find time to spend with your family. And remember that your skills don’t disappear just because you’ve stopped working. George Bernard Shaw once said, ‘… he who can does, he who cannot teaches’, but that’s not necessarily true. Sometimes the best teachers are those who can and have done, so consider taking up tutoring or mentoring and contribute to somebody else’s success. If teaching isn’t quite up your alley then check out some volunteer organisations, because they’re always looking for help and you might be just what they need. Helping others can sometimes provide just as much satisfaction as earning a paycheck ever did.
Retirement shouldn’t be something that is done to you – you’re not being put out to pasture because you’ve outlived your usefulness. You’ve worked long and hard to create enough wealth to allow you to live the life of your dreams. The important thing now is to make sure those dreams don’t slip through your fingers by making the most of the retirement information that’s available to you and ensuring that you can expect a great retirement income. Planning now is going to make all the difference when it comes to making your retirement the best time of your life. And, every now and then, if you do want to lie around in your pyjamas and watch soap operas, you can do that too … you won’t even have to get a doctor’s certificate.


